About This Book
Experience the Blessings of an Imperfect Marriage. We all–at one time or another–have the opportunity to act right when our spouse acts wrong. There are no perfect marriages or perfect spouses. We know that having a good marriage requires effort and hard work. Yet we often don’t know how to continue to love when we are angry, hurt, scared, or just plain irritated. Nor are we sure what that kind of love is supposed to look like. Should we be patient? Forgive and forget? Do something else entirely?
Acting right when your spouse acts wrong will not necessarily guarantee a more satisfying marital relationship, nor will it automatically make your spouse change his or her ways–although both could occur. It will, however, help you see how God is stretching you in the midst of your marital difficulties, teach you to respond wisely when wronged, and lead you into a deeper relationship with Christ as you yield your will to his plan for your life and learn to be more like him.
My Take:
A couple of years ago I took an amazing class called the Christian Home. The basis of this course was to become a Godly Woman, Wife and Mother. The one comment I heard over and over again was women struggling because their husbands were not Christians. I know that is so hard when you are trying to change your own life to glorify God, but to have a spouse running in the opposite direction? Incredibly hard and a test of our faith.
The leaders in the classroom though never allowed "husband bashing". Ever. We were taught that our job is to love him through all of his trials. Keep praying for him to come to know God. This book, How to Act Right when Your Spouse Acts Wrong is a great tie in to this way of life. I like that it offers both the man and woman's perspective because there are Godly husbands out there with wives that choose to live in this world.
You can pick up How to Act Right when Your Spouse Acts Wrong by Leslie Vernick at any bookstore or you can go to
Waterbrook Multnomah to order the book online!
Waterbrook Multnomah sent me a complimentary copy of How to Act Right when Your Spouse Acts Wrong.