I received Why Men Hate Going to Church by David Murrow and was excited to sit down with my husband and read it together. I barely got the first paragraph read before my husband took over the book and basically read it all in one night. Nick (my husband) was thrilled with this book! He kept coming over and reading snippets from the book about why men find church "feminine" and uncomfortable.
This book hits hard at what the church has become, basically feminine and very UN masculine! Men are encouraged to put down their masculinity and pick up a woman's perspective when it comes to activities, worship and even preaching IN the church. One of the great examples given is worship. You can take basically any contemporary christian song and switch our the word God or Jesus for Baby. Seriously, give it a try. Men aren't drawn to that type of music! The author challenges the reader to think about how men prefer simple songs that speak about how our God is strong and just.
Men's Ministries have been made feminine for the comfort of the women in the church. One particular church had a group of men that would take chain saws around the neighborhood during bad weather and clear out broken tree limbs and clear out drive ways. This group was VERY successful until a woman started to complain because she wanted to participate. She complained that it wasn't fair that the men wouldn't let her be apart of the group. Never mind that this was specifically FOR MEN! Why is it women feel they have to be a part of everything? Hearing about this particular case made me mad and I'm a woman!
I strongly recommend this for women who have spouses that don't want to go to church with them. Its a great way to look at church through his eyes and see if you see some of the same issues. Ladies, let your men be men! Its a beautiful gift when we step out of the way and watch them go and do as God has commanded them.
Book Description
It’s Sunday morning. Where are all the men? Golfing? Playing softball? Watching the tube? Mowing the lawn? Sleeping? One place you won’t find them is in church. Less than 40 percent of adults in most churches are men, and 20 to 25 percent of married church going women attend without their husbands. And why are the men who do go to church so bored? Why won’t they let God change their hearts?
David Murrow’s groundbreaking book has been completely revised and updated, with eye-opening research and a persuasive grasp on the facts, to explain the problem and offer hope and encouragement to women, pastors, and men. Why Men Hate Going to Church does not call men back to the church—it calls the church back to men.
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